Compassionate counsellor/therapist/life coach with extensive knowledge of counselling principles and practices. Adept at creating individualized treatment plans and leading group therapy sessions. Committed to creating safe, supportive environment for all participants.
I have studied, and will be an Insightful Counselor familiar with treatment protocols. Adept at responding to emergency situations calmly and respectfully. Passionate about patient support and resource advocacy.
Hardworking and passionate job seeker with strong organizational skills eager to secure a counselling and therapy position. Ready to help team achieve company goals.
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Radio presenter for over 25 years on top rated breakfast shows.
Interviewed entertainment, sports people, politicians, in New Zealand and around the world.
I worked when I finished high-school, and when returning from university in the United States as a team member at the city office of what we now refer to as The Ministry of Social development. I worked with new clients applying for unemployment, sickness and domestic purposes benefits.
I was promoted fairly quickly through my strong work ethics and ability to get along with both clients and team members.
Some people may believe that my passion is for radio and broadcasting, but this isn't so. My passion is for people and understanding them. I am also a writer. I have written opinion pieces for the NZ Herald, Stuff, Womans Day, Woman Magazine, and The Sunday Star Times. Most of my pieces around life, problem solving and social conscience. Now I have followed my particular passion. Counselling and therapy. It is my belief that if I am not part of the 'solution', then I am part of the problem.
Although not fluent in Te Reo, I was brought up in South Auckland. I attended The Chuch College of New Zealand, which was predominantly Polynesian. I married in to a Maori whanau. My children are Maori. Our whanau is Ngati Raukawa. Hapu Ngati Mano mano, and marare Tau Mata O Te Ra. I understand protocol both on and off the marae, and have a strong understanding of Maori and Pacifika cultures.
A strong belief of mine that the best broadcasters are not 'talkers', but rather 'listeners' and 'observers'. I had a successful career as a broadcaster, but it is my passion for listening, and hearing other peoples stories, and I feel that made me the successful broadcaster and interviewer that I became.
I am interested in everyone. Because I know that 'everyone' has a story.
There are very few life experiences I haven't been through. I suffered from severe anxiety during puberty. I was bullied at school, but rose through it to be a star student academically, head prefect, and house captain voted for by my peers.
I have been married and divorced, and remain very good friends with my ex husband, my ex husbands new wife and her family. I am still very close with my ex husbands whanau.
My three children are all very close to me, and each have been through life experiences that I have supported them through without being interfering or judgemental.
I have suffered both a late miscarriage of my first son, and a subsequent early miscarriage.
My only sibling , and best friend, died of Influenza at the age of forty
My wonderful father passed away from a stroke, and my mother died of dementia three years ago.
I unfortunately spent time in a relationship with a man who was at the time a former or recovered alcoholic/ addict, and relapsed while I was with him. So I have experienced life with a opiate/alcohol/ meth/ addict. I survived the emotional abuse, and and chronic PTSD associated with that.
Redundancy on several occasions has been a part of my life story. I appreciate the pain, confidence crisis,economic insecurity and grief that can occur.
Through all my life experience I have learned empathy for others. I old no judgement or bias. Possibly most importantly I am always open to new ideas, and constant learning. Even if I may not agree with other peoples values, politics, or lifestyles, I am always open to discuss and hold no judgement. I have warm sense of humour, and although I am a good public speaker, and motivational speaker, I would prefer to listen, observe and learn. There are many occasions I have been asked to deliver eulogies for friends, family members, and people I haven't known personally.
If asked what my strongest suits are I would answer:
Empathy
Warmth
Non-judgement
Willingness to learn and take on new challenges
Sense of humour
Understanding of different cultures
Reader of body and, non verbal language
Respect for women, men, and the LBGTQ + communities
Genuine compassion
Firm boundaries
Extensive life experience.